as i go through these times where every day brings with it a new goodbye, and sometimes a new hello, it strikes me that there are only a few goodbyes that i get sentimental about. unexpected for me in a sense, since i am the type of person who gets easily attached to my surroundings. but given that my transition is not so much leaving princeton to go to some completely disparate environment as much as it is zooming out of the orange bubble to the local “real world”, which includes home, campus, the city, and a lot of places in between, as well as a whole lot of people from my college years – given this, i feel that there are relatively few people i am actually saying goodbye to, and even fewer things. and of the people who are leaving the megalopolis “bubble” in which i now find myself, there are only a handful that i feel i will really, actively miss. these are the people with whom i’ve shared countless memories during princeton, the people who have shown me and done for me so much that i cannot even measure it. and yet, these are the people with whom i feel that our relationship may be as transitorily dependent on the sustained proximity of the college environment as it is meaningful and real. there are, of course, those friendships which have taken on different forms throughout the years, sometimes more proximal, sometimes more distal, in various capacities - but i am not talking about these friendships. for these relationships, i like to think that the transition to post-grad life will be just one more transformation. rather, the transitions that truly make me pause for a second are those for which i feel i must say, “it’ll never be the same.” so i stop, ponder, give thanks to God for the time that i’ve been given with each of these friends, and finally, reluctantly but expectantly, turn my gaze to what lies ahead. to those friends, i think (and hope that) you know who you are; this entry is dedicated to you. thank you.